Family Picture

As I mentioned last week, I had a feeling our Friday appointment for a family picture wasn't going to go so well. My mama instincts were right. Upon entering the room, EK had a meltdown. I guess the lights, camera, and strange man in the room bothered her. She was upset in all 3 pictures. AC had a poker face in the first 2. (She tends to be shy at first.) As part of the process, each family recieved a free 8x10 for participating in the church directory. I told them "No thank you." Who wants a visual reminder of how traumatic it was for EK? I also told them we'd submit our own photo. I knew anything would be an improvement. :)
On Sunday, we asked my mom and sister to take a couple pictures after church. I was hoping the girls would cooperate. It went much better! We'll use one of these. Still not perfect, but my sweet EK is happy. That's how I want others to see her!

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  1. SarahMay 25, 2010 at 10:47 AM

    Those turned out cute!! Glad you got one. And you look gorgeous Mama!

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  2. LianaMay 25, 2010 at 2:07 PM

    Both those pictures are real nice of all of you!

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  3. LaquitaMay 30, 2010 at 11:24 PM

    Those are sweet, happy pictures!

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